Hi I am diving into dating apps this week. I tried Hinge they are working on there accessibility by the way I contacted them. I am looking for a dating app where you don't have to pay to set basics for preferences and you can read the full text profiles. I guess dating is a big business. But plenty of fish you have to pay for a membership to see most of the profile and tneder is a mess some say it works i say its hard to use uness you pay for it and have patience and sighted help. I mostly used the website for that. So other than those and the inaccessible bumble any other ideas? I even tried dating for disabled a while back and you would think they would be accessible but nope they are not. I am really in need of help here.
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dating apps
Most apps are not accessible. Sad but there it is.
I have plenty of experience in this aarea...
Hinge has been usable recently. I wish Bumble would sort theirs out as I know a lot of people who have found some success on there but the one I keep going back to is tinder which has always been surprisingly accessible, and I've been pleasantly surprised by how many people actually do put text on their profiles as well as pictures. It's a clunky app, not just for accessibility. Occasionally it completely breaks, like a few days ago voiceover just stopped reading any of it so I deleted the app and re downloaded and it was better again. None of them are perfect, but tinder has been the one I've used the most in recent times.
re: hinge
I am working with hinge I will contact them again and see how its going on accessibility.
Match
Don't know if you're averse to going online, and I can't say if it's still accessible, but I met my wife on match.com around 12 years ago. I found the web site perfectly accessible. Lots of local folks were on it, too.
Good luck!
Bruce
Tinder Web app
For those not in the know, Tinder for quite some time now has had a Web-based version of its application that is far more accessible than its IOS counterpart. The Web app is even a PWA that can be installed as a shortcut on your desktop. It tends to work better with the Chrome browser, and can be found at https://tinder.com.
Try badoo it’s free
The app badoo is very accessible besides the pictures it’s completely accessible and the team will always consider accessibility for their blind users
dating apps since there are some that are hit and miss
I think if we are going to get these accessible we need to band together as a community and contact these companies. Plenty of fish needs to be contacted.
Traditional dating
Or you could just try dating the traditional way, i.e. going outside and meeting people in person, in real life, in the real world. Dating apps aren't the only way to meet people; if one way doesn't work for you or others, try another way. Most communities (though not all) even have in-person (or, perhaps, virtual now due to COVID-19) meet-up groups for individuals who are visually impaired or have other disabilities, so that would be a great place to start in a journey to meet new people and find someone to date. There are also matchmaking services (i.e. Talkify) and other ways of meeting new people as well. Remember that dating applications, by their very nature, are very visual things, but luckily there are plenty of apps out there, or alternative ways to use apps (like Tinder's much more accessible Web app when compared to its iOS counterpart), that there is bound to be at least one dating application that meets someone's accessibility needs.
True but...
It's funny you mention Tawkify. Most blind people aren't going to be able to afford their service. $500 a month plus whatever the date costs are. If there's a matchmaker service that isn't strictly for professionals and is affordable, I'd like to know. But I don't think Tawkify has any competition.
Supporting evidence required
What data or supporting evidence do you have for the qualifier you used in your reply to my comment? Saying that "most" blind people cannot afford a service like Talkify is inaccurate as I know a number of blind people who can, including myself, and there are lots of opportunities out there for blind people to earn a higher income if desired. In fact, I know one blind person currently making $83,000 per year, and while of course not everyone makes that much money, just because someone is visually impaired does not mean they cannot earn a salary befitting the items they wish to afford. If something is not affordable for someone that does not mean it won't be in the future, nor does it mean it's impossible for that person to make the life changes required for it to be affordable. At most, you can say there are individuals out there who wouldn't be able to afford Talkify, but no qualifier can be given here without additional evidence to support such a claim.
Regardless, a matchmaking service is just one of the alternative dating methods I mentioned in my comment, and Talkify is just one such matchmaking service; there are others, perhaps even some that are more within the budget of a prospective individual than that of Talkify.
accessibility
Maybe not about money but how easy they are to use and accessible.
dating apps
The only apps I even tried to play around with were e-harmony and Christian Mingle. Neiter was accessible enough for me to keep around, and the one match I got from Christian Mingle ended up being nothing but red flags. I've tried meet up also, but that was pretty underwhelming as well. On the whole, especially as I get older, I'm happy to just stay single, but sometimes, I think it would be nice to find someone to spend time with at the very least and expand my social circle a tad.
Christian Mingle/eHarmony and VoiceOver
I've sent Christian Mingle a long list of simple UI and VoiceOver fixes for the app, as well as resources on where to find the development resources to fix said issues. Not sure if they will take these into consideration, but they did tell me they want to make the app better. I listed the app in the AppleVis directory with the labels for the tabs along the bottom. You can use the app with VO, it just requires some workarounds and trial and error. Reading the profile text and messages was okay. Some difficulty in filling out the profile.
The eHarmony app is mostly VO accessible, however the scrolling in the messages drives me bananas. Their website is okay if you know how to set landmarks and jump around.
Good luck.
Yes
This tend to happen due to the fact that sometimes a group with similar interest or jobs come together. Nurses and doctors and police tend to date each other. Social workers,and psychologist.
Psychologists and social workers?
we've gone down the path of trying to pigeonhole people, haven't we? let me just say, as a barrister, the last person I would want to date is another barrister! Imagine the conversations over breakfast...all about admissibility of evidence, cross-examination and quantum of damages?
I have assiduously complied with the rule of reading things twice and must say that the second reading left me no more enlightened than the first as nobody appears to have said anything too complicated. By and large I agree with oliver; but I also agree that one can meet other groups of blindies if one wishes and that this is just one of many options that the traditional dating chap (I forget their username and am not committed enough to this enterprise to look back and refresh my memory) mentioned. Wouldn't it be ironic if there were a dating app specifically for blind people that wasn't accessible?
On a serious note, I met my fiancee through eHarmony. The app was mainly accessible although there were some elements that were not great...typically the part where eHarmony asks you to rank characteristics in order of importance. I tended to find myself telling my prospective date that such things didn't work well for blindies and so would she mind awfully skipping that step? In fact, nearly everyone with whom i corresponded on eHarmony was very relaxed about skipping stuff that was not accessible. Yes it's relatively expensive but that does weed out quite a few of the nutjobs. yes it takes a while to fill in but at least that shows it's making a reasonably serious effort to try and find you matches. Someone else mentioned match.com here and that one's not bad either, though the website in my experience was considerably better than the app. This was seven or eight years ago.
wehre I think blindies fall down is they don't bother themselves with getting decent pictures. You really, really need decent pictures for a dating profile if you want sighted people to be interested. You don't have to be dashingly handsome - but make sure you have pictures in which you look reasonably smart. A picture of you lounging around in shorts and a t-shirt with islands of last night's tomato sauce down it ain't really going to cut the mustard. if you have a sighted friend you need to use that sighted friend to find a decent picture of yourself for you, or else to take one. I appeared on eHarmony in a suit in all my pictures. There was one particularly good one of me on the terrace of the House of Commons.
OK Cupid
I’m surprise nobody has mentioned OK Cupid yet. I find that one to find decently accessible
Sighted all the way
I met my current guy by walking up to him, hitting on him then kissing his cheek before he left. I wouldn't date a blind person for one definitely shallow reason. I'm not dealing with the issues we face and have to deal with whoever having the same or worse access issues. I am with my boyfriend because he and i are great together not because he's sighted. Oh and for the LGBTQ+ I'd be curious if the apps like Grindr are accessible if they have worked for you if you choose to tell us.
Thumbs up to OK Cupid
I met my wife on Ok Cupid several years ago. This was before Tinder was around. Take the rest of this with a grain of sault because I haven't used the site in a while for obvious reasons.
I liked the fact that you had a bunch of stuff to fil out. When viewing profiles there was enough text that I was able to filter out a lot of people based on what they had written. I found the website to be more usable then the app but who knows what the situation is now.
I'm doing a study about accessibility on tinder
Hi,
I am Yosephina who are doing a study with my group at Hyper Island Sweden, about digital accessibility for people with visual impairments on the dating app Tinder. We want to find better digital solutions for people with impairments on Tinder. Therefore we are looking for people that want to participate in an interview.
You don’t need to have used Tinder before but it would be nice if you have used any other online dating application or website. You need to have an interest in online dating. The interviews will preferably take place in Stockholm or online during this week. We will use the information from the interview.
The interview will only be for educational purposes (not in collaboration with Tinder) and we do not publish names, photos or other personal information. If you or anyone close to you has an interest in participating in this survey, please contact us via email: yosephina.huwae@hyperisland.se
Hi, who is your contact at…
Hi, who is your contact at Hinge? I am reactivating my account and can't even get past the screen where I am entering all my info (gender, sexuality, etc) because i can't type into any text boxes. Double tapping doesn't work. I am extremely frustrated; please let me know if you have any contacts/ideas.